Learning to Listen: Silence

An unknown writer shared this about the power that silence and solitude can have within spiritual life:

“There is exterior silence and interior silence. The monastery is, or should be, a place of at least relative silence in the sense of the absence of unnecessary noise and agitated movement. We are less assaulted by harsh sounds; rather we are soothed by the mostly harmonious sounds of nature, and bells and our Gregorian chant. This pacifies our sensibility and refines it. A heightened awareness is a common experience in solitude and affects all the senses, for they are all linked together.

In silence we are more vividly aware of colour, and perfume and touch, because we are more present to ourselves. And little by little, we become attuned to the breathing spaces of silence between the sounds, as it were, like an underlying melody, not exactly ‘heard’, and yet somehow perceived, something that can take the character of a presence.

Silence begets an attitude of listening. The artist, the philosopher, the praying person may perceive or, at least, express in different words diverse aspects of this reality, but all have need of silence, receptivity, and awareness.”

Unnecessary noise and agitated movement… if only this stuff were relevant to “here and now”, eh?!

Becoming attuned to the “breathing spaces of silence between the sounds”… LOVE that phrase. I’ve heard that the difference between surviving or perishing in a pile of rubble (earthquake or whatever) is often whether a victim has access to a “breathing space” or not. Not hard to run with that illustration, is it?

Receptivity and awareness… I always need more of both. Might some silent solitude be in order?

Learning to Listen: Stability

This powerful bit comes from Joan Chittister. If we’re free to choose our spiritual mentors, I use one of my top picks to select her.

“When the monastic makes a vow of stability it is a vow designed to still the wandering heart. There comes a time in life when everyone else’s family seems to have been better than my own. There comes a moment when having everything seems to be the only way to squeeze even a little out of life. There comes a day when this job, this home, this town, this family all seem irritating and deficient beyond the bearable. There comes a period in life when I regret every major decision I’ve ever made. That is precisely the time when the spirituality of stability offers its greatest gift.

Stability enables me to outlast the dark, cold places of life until the thaw comes and I can see new life in this uninhabitable place again.

But for that to happen I must learn to wait through the winters of my life.

THOSE moments… I know them.

Winters of life… I’ve had those.

Stability… I seek that.

Learning to Listen… Still

Yes, I’m still within that section of readings, entitled “Learning to Listen”.  Yesterday, sitting in a waiting room, I read a few pages.

And I felt like I was breathing unusually fresh air.

So the next three posts are quotes.

If in need of freshness, please proceed.

PS: These ARE from a monk-like book, so work a few words to make this relevant.  I’m sure you’ll quickly sense the quality of this air too.

Ch-Ch-Ch-Changing

Blogging lately has fallen low on my list.  Much of that has had to do with a load of changes over the past couple months.

So consider this a quick catch-up, I-should-have-posted-this-before post.

The end of July saw us sell off the first home we’d ever owned to buy another.  The whole thing happened quickly, and I don’t likely need to explain the work involved in packing up a whole house and moving it to any of you.

The new house is bigger and newer, though neither of those were why we bought it.  We are using the new house to run an approved mental health home.  Translation: We have four adults who live with us.  We monitor their medications, supply food and meals for them, and aim to create a healthy and stable home for them to be a part of.  So beyond the normal disorder of moving in and settling a new place, this responsibility has been in the mix since day one.  All in all, it’s gone VERY well; it’s just added one more major change to the pile.  All of this (selling a house we loved, buying more house than we needed, and taking on the approved home) sprung from our desire to have a parent at home when we had kids “in the future”.

As was posted some time back, “the future” has arrived.  We are within two weeks of our due date, so the changes are about to continue!

For good friends of ours, this post is likely all old news.  But I’m told blogs are at least partially for updating people on your life–particularly if you’re not part of the Facebook cult–so consider this my way-overdue update.

Who Am I?

Morning reading led me to the words of Karl Adam.

If you’ve ever wondered who you are, as one of the six billion people currently inhabiting our planet, he puts this out there:

“Man is a mystery. He is the culmination-point of an eternal love which issues from God; a point in the actuality of the world where, as nowhere else, the love of God burns.”

YOU and your life are a point where the love of God burns with a unique flame.

Words like that can change a life.

So take that with you as you walk today.