Joan Chittister on Simplicity

I love this woman.  She blesses me richly every time that I sit with her–a woman of God and a woman of wisdom.

One of her books was on a second-hand shelf recently.  That purchase needed no debating or justifying.  Sold!

To be quite honest, this book (entitled “Becoming Fully Human”) strikes me as a bit of mish-mash of bits of writing that perhaps had no other home, so they were crunched into this piece and bound together with a cover and a title.  Despite that, it’s still a a treasure to me.

Her opening chapter is about simplicity, which she admits is anything but simple.  In fact, she questions whether much of Christianity’s talk of simplicity has been more accurately talk about deprivation.  And to boil down simplicity to nothing grander than deprivation is indeed a terrible trade.

She then unloads several pages of quotes on the topic.  For your journey, I bring you the best…

  • “Simplicity is a talent for going with the flow in life.  When we have to affect our simplicity–plan it, impose it, strategize it–we’re in real trouble.”
  • “Life is not simple.  There is no controlling it, no shaping it in the style of a slower, calmer, idyllic world–long gone, if ever here.  Instead, we need to learn how to deal with our complexities with simplicity.”
  • “Simplicity of life is more ‘the habitually relaxed grasp‘ than it is life without gadgets.” (My two cents: If the two happen to coincide with each other, so be it.)
  • “Simplicity of life is the ability to handle with single-minded unity of soul and serenity of heart whatever life brings.”

Warning: The next one is a zinger.

  • “When we handle our own life schedule very well because we refuse to have our own priorities interrupted by anyone else’s needs, is that simplicity of life?”
  • “We live a simple life when we do not pretend to be something we are not.”
  • “Simplicity is an attitude of mind that enables us to stand unimpeded by the seductiveness of the unnecessary and the cosmetic.”
  • “Simplicity is the openness to the beauty of the present, whatever its shape, whatever its lack.  It enables us to be conscious of where we are and to stop mourning where we are not.”
  • “There is no simplicity in a heart full of agitation and in a soul too distracted to recognize the one who is among us, yet invisible in chaos.”

There you go.  I hope that simplified everything.

Or at  least fueled you for another mile.

Riders ’09: Game 8 (Mtl)

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The bye week’s come and gone, and Labour Day is nearly here.  Before we arrive at the madness that is the Labour Day Classic, it’s time to mark our last game, a “good” loss in Montreal.  I say “good” because I was just thrilled to see us battle with the Als.  A few things that stood out to me as I watched…

  • Durant is coming along–it was great to see him hit a number of long passes.  He held his own against Calvillo, to be sure.
  • Three sacks on Calvillo is no easy task–the D came to play.
  • Getting stuffed three times from the one–that was hard to watch.  If I ever see another run up the middle, it’ll be too soon for me.
  • Dressler is the man!  Seriously, that guy needs to be a Rider for his entire career.  He was born to play football here.
  • Our run defense has stepped up the last two games, and that is a big deal.  Hopefully, we make Fred Reid look less-than-average this week.
  • Our boys showed some character.  After Taylor’s TD return, we responded quickly with a score of our own.  And right up until the end, we stood toe to toe and traded shots with the Als.  It was a treat to watch that kind of spirit and fight–I hope we see it every game.

In case you missed the action, I’ll close with some highlights from Montreal…

Curing Hypocrisy

On August 27, 1996, three weeks before his unexpected death, Henri Nouwen wrote these words in his journal…

“We who offer spiritual leadership often find ourselves not living what we are preaching or teaching.  It is not easy to avoid hypocrisy completely because we find ourselves saying things larger than ourselves.  I often call people to a life I am not fully able to live myself.

I am learning that the best cure for hypocrisy is community.  Hypocrisy is not so much the result of not living what I preach but much more of not confessing my inability to fully live up to my own words.”

I’ve bolded the words above because I couldn’t agree more.  Part of the call to lead is to lead towards things bigger than yourself–to follow a path that is beyond oneself.  I believe that unapologetically, and I agree that it brings out hypocrisy, in some sense.

However, that second bolded portion strikes me as major too.  “Hypocrisy” is often a charge leveled at an enemy.  I remember hearing this word in heated tones as two sides “opposed” to each other armed themselves with this word-bullet, intent on damaging each other.  But I’ve never heard it used from one friend to another, even when every secret has been shared and every inconsistency is known.  Somehow, realness diffuses something.  And in real community with others, this realness offers healing to any of the planet’s six billion hypocrites who find themselves in need of that.

Struggling with Self

Somewhere along his road, Blaise Pascal penned these words, imagining them coming from God’s own mouth…

“It is I who have made you and I alone can teach you what you are.  But you are no longer in the state I made you.  I created you holy, innocent, perfect, I filled you with light and understanding, I showed you my glory and my wondrous works.  You eye then beheld the majesty of God.  You were not then in the darkness that now blinds your sight, nor subject to death and the miseries that afflict you.

But you could not bear such great glory without falling into presumption.  You wanted to make yourself your own center and do without my help.  You withdrew from my rule, setting yourself as my equal in your desire to find happiness in yourself and I abandoned you to yourself.”

And that decision to seek what we need within ourselves–that sounds the bell and begins the battle, where nothing works as we think.  We squeeze tighter and wrench our grip upon the situation, confident that control is within our reach.  We scheme and strategize, certain that our best-laid plans will be sufficient to get a handle on life as we know it.

Yet into the struggle, Jesus speaks an unnerving single line: “Whoever will saves his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it.”

Is it possible that we have it all backwards?  Could it be that a twist took place in the plot somewhere, and we missed the whole point?  Can one think they won, only to lose that which they desired most to save?

Yes.  Apparently so.

So we struggle.

We struggle against our desires for control.  We struggle against our craving for central position in our worlds.  And we determine to discover dependence.  We try on a cross for size, and we pick it up with faith that dying indeed brings life.

In my experience, the struggle never ends.  Also in my experience, it is the battle that must be waged daily and which is most demanding of my energies.

To any in the heat of battle today, fight on, my brothers and sisters.  Slow down a breath or two.  Loosen a fist or two.  Relax a muscle or two.  Pray a word or two.  And bow a knee or two.

You are not alone.

An American’s View of the CFL

If you know me, you know I’m a football fan.  I simply enjoy that game–especially the CFL.

HERE is a great article by an American CFL fan, describing how he stumbled upon our game  Any football fan will enjoy this–the rest of you, keep moving.