Heart of a Shepherd

Eighteen months ago, I sat in a workshop led by Lynn Anderson.  He was speaking about spiritual leadership and what he was describing as “The Heart of a Shepherd”.

Some recent spring cleaning led me to the notes I took that day.  For those in “official” positions of spiritual leadership, or for any who care about their ability and responsibility to influence others for good, perhaps some of these quips will bring something of value to you today.

  1. We cannot fix churches.  We can’t even fix people.  We can’t even fix ourselves!
  2. A critique of many who attempt to lead: “You want the Jesus results without the Jesus way.”
  3. “A spiritual leader is the kind of person who God-hungry people want to be like.”
  4. At some level, the heart of a shepherd is a broken heart.  And we need churches that are full of shepherds who have hurt.
  5. Getting hurt by the people we love is central to some of the greatest ministry getting done.
  6. If you don’t love people enough for them to break your heart, you likely don’t love them enough to do them much good.

Anything resonate with your spot on the road today?

Re-Thinking Leadership (8/28)

What follows isn’t mine.  It’s from the blog of Charles Kiser, who works with a church plant in Dallas

He speaks of attending a conference, where he had the chance to share a table with Neil Cole, who’s written a book called “Organic Church”.  Basic idea of this book: Church is most what it’s supposed to be when it’s small and highly reproductive.  Cole focuses on making disciples who make disciples and start new churches – even in the confines of people’s homes or in coffee shops.

Kiser then goes on to reflect on his church’s leadership challenges, which I’ve only observed in… oh… every church I’ve ever seen.  But his is unique in the sense that their needs are pushed to the forefront by their rapid growth.  Yeah, I don’t see that in every church–my own included.

So take it away, Charles…

We’ve been facing leadership development challenges in the Storyline Community — in a good way. More people are participating than we have leaders to lead. So, wondering what might be ahead for us, I asked Mr. Cole: “How long does it take before a person becomes a disciple and is able to lead and care for a house church?”

Cole said, “Well, that’s easy: 3 years, 6 months, 29 days, 8 hours, 22 seconds.”

And he stared at me. Then he put his hand on my shoulder and said, “You know I’m making fun of you, right?” I

said, “Yeah, I got that.”

He went on to say that there’s no formula or identical pattern for developing leaders. Then he said something very profound that I’ve been chewing on this week. “In the institutional paradigm, leadership development is about getting people to do something for you (e.g., lead a group, teach a class, preach a sermon, develop curriculum, etc.). “In an organic paradigm, leadership development is discipleship. Leadership is about following Jesus so closely that other people want to follow you because they think by doing so they might also be able to follow Jesus more closely. Skills and logistics flow out of a disciple’s relationship with Jesus.” Then he put in a plug for his new book, Organic Leadership.

He’s right. The easy part is teaching people the skills of event planning, conversation facilitation and connecting with people.

The hard part is seeing passion for God cultivated in people such that it’s contagious and other people follow because they want that passion.

It challenges me as a leader, too. Am I contagious? Are people following because they see a passion for God in me that they want? Am I a person of character? Those are much deeper questions than “Can I run a leadership development group well?” I thanked Neil Cole for being patient with me.

I’m still deprogramming from institutional ways of envisioning leadership.

I always knew it wasn’t just about doing, but this gave words to a few of my fuzzy thoughts.  This makes the quest to invest in leaders more challenging; it also makes it something that actually looks worth doing.

As for the deprogramming from institutional ways…

That’s likely a post for another day.